Tips for Coaching Non Delegators (and Equivalents)

delegationHow can we best coach people who have an issue with delegating? They know they should do something about it. They try to delegate, but they find it hard to be consistently good delegators.

This is a seriously important issue in professional service firms where delegation typically improves margins and helps develop the talent of juniors.

The answer, according to Kegan and Lahey , is that coaches should recognise that there are typically hidden commitments that aren’t normally being expressed.

Here is their suggested four step coaching process.

Step 1 – Coaches might start by focusing on the explicit commitment – something they clearly want to achieve because they recognize it is vital to their continued success and advancement (eg delegating more).

Step 2 – The coach next focuses on the obstructive behaviours. What are they doing or not doing that works against fulfilling the commitment? Instead of regarding these behaviours as things that just need to go away, coaches should see them as valuable information that can be explored to gain a deeper understanding of what really motivates them and how they actually make choices. This step flushes out their hidden commitments.

Step 3 – The coach invites the person to delve one level deeper to surface the big assumptions behind the hidden commitments. These unspoken and often unconscious assumptions are the ultimate source of the anxiety shaping the person’s obstructive behaviours, and so can be the gateway to substantial, lasting change and great leaps forward in their development.

In the case of the person not delegating enough, the misguided assumptions might be:

  • It will take longer and I haven’t got time to delegate it
  • They won’t do it as well as I could, or even they might do it badly
  • They might do it better than me which would make me feel bad

Fortunately, misguided assumptions can be addressed though this step may take a few coaching sessions. The coach might ask: what might happen if you did…? Their assumptions provide a sort of immune system protecting them, not from disease, but from perceived anxiety of some kind.

Coaches can help leaders to systematically consider their hidden beliefs, then replace false or overly restrictive beliefs with new beliefs. This work proceeds at whatever pace the person can accommodate, but quite often they can redraw their immunity systems within a few months, bringing their big assumptions more into harmony with their visible commitments.

Step 4 – The coach explores different experiments in which their immune system is protected but more delegation takes place. Perhaps small, carefully controlled steps are taken initially. The goal is never to destroy a leader’s immune system, which is an essential part of who they are and so must be acknowledged, honoured, and healthily incorporated into their development. Rather, the object is to help them see how they might consciously modify their psychological immune systems to continue to provide essential internal protections, while also permitting the accomplishment of their stated goals.

 

If you found this useful, you might also like Tips for Coaches 1 – Coaching Fat Smokers. See https://tonyreiss.com/2016/05/04/tips-for-coaches-1-coaching-fat-smokers/

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Tips for Coaching Fat Smokers (and Equivalents)

 

David Maister was a Harvard professor and one of the most lucid presenters and writers. He was also a fat smoker. He knew he should give up smoking, eat less and exercise more.

His pattern was our pattern. We try a little, succumb to temptation, give up. We repeat until totally frustrated and cynical.

He recognised what caused the problem – the rewards (and pleasure) are in the future; the disruption, discomfort and discipline needed to get there are immediate.

‘To reach our goals, we must first change our lifestyle, our daily habits, now. Then we have to have the courage to keep up the new habits and not yield to all the old familiar temptations. Then, and only then, do we get the benefits later.

As human beings, we are not good at such decisions. We start self-improvement programmes with good intentions, but if they don’t pay off immediately, or if a temptation to depart from the programme arises, we abandon our efforts completely—until the next time we pretend to be on the programme.’

That’s our pattern. Telling us what we should do clearly doesn’t work. What coaches need to do is help them find a strategy that they will commit to and incorporate into their daily routine. Dabbling is not acceptable, because it won’t work.

So a coaching approach that might help a fat smoker would be to ask: What exercise and diet might you enjoy and be prepared to build into your daily routine?

Encouragement is also an essential ingredient in the recipe. When starting to exercise, you can imagine how powerful it is to hear the words, ‘good work – you’re doing much better’. Diets can have goals of losing 50 lbs, which can seem impossible, or 1 lb a week, which seems more attainable.

As David points out: We all need to play mind games with ourselves when we struggle to build new achievements and habits into our lives. For example, “If I can just finish this first one, I’ll reward myself with a break. Let me just get this first one done!”).

Of course this article isn’t about fat smokers. We can all find ourselves having bad habits at work where the short term pain seems to outweigh the long term rewards. Coaches – take note!

Tips for Coaches 2 – Dealing with Hidden Commitments is also available. See https://tonyreiss.com/2016/05/04/tips-for-coaches-2-the-non-delegator/

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Here’s Some Feedback for Law Firms – Your Feedback Isn’t Working!

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There – I’ve said it and got it off my chest! Phew – that feels a lot better!

But it won’t make any difference for several reasons , including:

  1. You don’t know me or trust me, so you don’t know I have your best interests to heart.
  2. The feedback is far too vague. There’s nothing specific for you to understand. For example, in what way is the feedback in law firms bad? What specific situations have occurred? What have been the consequences of giving poor or no feedback?
  3. Also, there’s nothing stated about what might be done differently. So behaviours are unlikely to change.

Too often feedback is given for the benefit of the giver – venting their frustrations. Not enough consideration is given to the receiver and what will help them improve.

But another issue relating to feedback we tend to overlook is that feedback should ideally be controlled by the learner. Allow me to explain…

Sheila Heen has studied feedback and written some useful books on the topic. She says too much emphasis is given to training people on how to give feedback when the effort would be better put on training people on how to receive it! After all, without any training we will all choose which bits of feedback we want to hear – what fits with our sense of who we are and what doesn’t.  Lawyers, as high achievers, might also be overly focused on the criticism?

I’m repeatedly being told by associates in law firms that they don’t receive enough feedback. But when I delve deeper I discover that they also don’t ask for any feedback! Surely if we want to get better at something we need feedback from a specialist so we can improve?

So here’s what might be done differently. At the start of a matter, the partner might ask the associate what they would like feedback on throughout the work. It could concern their research, drafting or presentations in meetings. This discussion creates a sort of contract for how they’ll be working together.

Law firms are losing many talented people because they feel under appreciated. They don’t feel their work is valued. I think that’s a terrible waste! Feedback can provide that sense of appreciation.

Feedback should be seen as a gift. Feedback offers a way of potentially seeing into our blind spots. – the bits of ourselves our best friends know and we don’t. It will be harder to improve performance without these insights so let’s get feedbacking!

For more commentary on feedback see:

Should Law Firms Eliminate Annual Appraisals?

Why Lawyers Don’t Give Constructive Feedback

https://tonyreiss.com/2013/09/10/practice-group-leaders-need-your-feedback/

For a link to Sheila Heen’s TED Talk on feedback see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FQNbaKkYk_Q

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Are Your Teams at Work a Bit Dysfunctional?

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Apparently, according to business writer Patrick Lencioni, most work teams are somewhat dysfunctional. I don’t think it’s any better in professional firms – whether it’s a team brought together to work on a case and whether it’s your practice group as a whole.

Associates tell me there’s often a lack of transparency as to who is selected to work on particular matters or to be on pitch teams. Team meetings or conference calls are typically time-consuming and boring. Associates in remote offices feel like outsiders. People aren’t given much useful feedback etc.

So what should leaders be doing more of, or less of, to create better performing teams?

According to Lencioni the most important area to work on is trust. But not just any old trust – not the sort where you trust someone is going to deliver. Lencioni means a deeper sort of trust – a sort of psychological trust – the sort of trust that’s needed when you’re feeling vulnerable. Indeed this deeper trust allows people to be vulnerable. It allows people to admit they’ve made a mistake and know they won’t be chastised.

This is so fundamental that it’s worth exploring how to develop this kind of trust amongst your team members. Fundamentally, it helps to encourage people to open up about themselves. Let’s look at an example…

At the start of a workshop, perhaps where not everybody knows each other, most people usually feel a bit anxious. Deep down we wonder what others will think of us? Will we fit in? Will we look foolish? To ease this discomfort I sometimes ask people to introduce themselves and say something about their name. Why did their parents choose it? Does the name have a meaning? The mood soon changes as people disclose something somewhat personal. There are usually a few funny stories which create some laughter and that also helps diffuse any tensions.

I also find the use of psychometric diagnostics helpful – for example, putting everybody through a MBTI questionnaire and sharing the outputs about their personality type.

Lencioni recommends something similar. He asks people to share something about where they grew up, how many siblings they had and the challenges they faced growing up.

Of course it’s important that the leaders lead by example in these exercises. Also some of these exercises are culturally sensitive. What might be appropriate in the USA might be different to what would work best in South Asia, etc.

Once trust is established, for teams to perform at their best, individuals need to be comfortable with conflict. To ensure getting the best output, ideas need to be challenged. If things aren’t working to everybody’s satisfaction something needs to be said and people need to be listened to.

This belief is consistent with the thinking by psychologist Bruce Tuckman who came up with the notion that all groups need to go through the stages of:

  • Forming
  • Storming
  • Norming
  • Performing

Many individuals are uncomfortable with conflict and they avoid it at all costs. This is a shame because it means that important thoughts and feelings aren’t being raised and dealt with. There is the risk that these feelings fester and get exaggerated.

Team leaders need to be good at encouraging people to say what they think. They need to be good at listening, acknowledging feelings and mediating.

Once trust is established and opinions can be freely aired and team members are comfortable with conflict, it becomes possible to generate much more commitment to work objectives. This generates in turn more motivation, more energy and better outcomes.

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Sherwood Report on Gender Balance in Law Firms – Could Try Harder!

school reportImagine it’s coming up to the end of the Easter term at school. Report time for law firms! Some A’s, a few B’s, but on Diversity and Inclusion, I’m afraid it’s a ‘Could Try Harder!’

My Sherwood partner Ann Collier carried out research amongst 28 law firms to find out what’s best practice in terms of retaining top female talent. There are some good things happening, but there is evidence that progress has rather plateaued. What do firms need to do differently to move to the next level?

Some notable findings and thoughts from Ann are as follows:

  1. Most firms regard keeping top female talent as strategically important to their business and yet there are still pockets of Partners who do not fully embrace the concept and objectives. Is this being given top priority by the management of your firm?
  2. In many firms the approach to improving gender diversity is not as joined up as it needs to be.  Information needs to be shared widely to enable everyone to understand, support, prioritise and celebrate positive progress. Your firm may offer maternity coaching but does it have processes for ensuring that women are selected for the most important matters or pitches?
  3. It is important that all Partners share the responsibility for achieving greater gender balance at partnership and senior leadership levels. Sherwood believes that firms would benefit from all partners setting Diversity & Inclusion objectives for themselves and their teams each year against which they are measured.
  4. Is Partnership attractive enough?  Many of the upcoming generation of future partners are not sure they want the Partner role in its current form and the accompanying lifestyle. Is your firm promoting the benefits of partnership in a way that appeals to associates?
  5. Are firms measuring what’s working and what isn’t?  Our research suggests that firms aren’t doing enough to measure which gender diversity initiatives are working and which may need further development. For example, has it been worth offering coaching for maternity returners or not? Has training in Unconscious Bias improved recruitment ratios or Performance Appraisals?
  6. Where firms are getting it right it is a powerful recruitment tool.  One firm reported 90% of its current applications for training contracts cite the firm’s approach to diversity as one of their reasons for choosing the firm.

So at least there will be some top female talent coming in at the bottom. Let’s find more ways of keeping this talent motivated and aspiring to get to the top.

Sherwood is interested to hear your thoughts on our findings. If you would like a copy of our findings, please contact Ann.Collier@sherwoodpsfconsulting.com

For more insights into this important issue see https://tonyreiss.com/2016/02/16/the-drain-of-female-talent-in-firms/

 

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The Future of the Legal Profession According to the Susskind’s

future of professionsSome radical developments are on their way for law firms – if not already happening! We have entered the Fourth Industrial Revolution (see below) and all those engaged in the knowledge professions need to be aware.

Law firms might need to be reminded of the importance of peripheral vision when it comes to setting strategy. As Andrew Grove, Former CEO & Chairman, of Intel has said:

“When spring comes, snow melts first at the periphery, because that’s where it’s most exposed.”

I’ve selected these ten developments at the periphery of the knowledge professions from online videos from the father and son Susskind team.

  1. When they were introduced, more people signed up for Harvard online courses in a single year than attended Harvard in its entire 377 years
  2. Khan Academy has 10 million users of its instructional online videos each month – more than the entire UK school population [see https://www.khanacademy.org/]
  3. WebMD, which provides online health advice, has 190 million visits each month – not all of them hypochondriacs! [see http://www.webmd.com/%5D
  4. The US FDA predicts that 1.5 billion will have at least one medical app on their smartphone or tablet
  5. On its sixth birthday, Huffington Post had more hits than the 164 year old NY Times
  6. Accenture, originally a part of an auditing firm, now employs 750 nurses
  7. Deloitte, another firm that 170 years ago was just offering audits, now owns a university in Texas
  8. Even the Vatican is getting in on change. There’s an app to help you prepare for confession with tools for tracking sin and a dropdown menu with options for contrition! Trouble is, it seems to be in Latin (maybe it’s Italian!)
  9. Closer to home for lawyers, the most recognised legal brand in the US is not a traditional law firm –it is legalzoom.com [see https://www.legalzoom.com/about-us%5D
  10. Finally, if you’re not convinced that the snow is melting, there are 60 million disputes each year on eBay. They are resolved without lawyers using an e-mediation platform.

These changes provide law firms with opportunities and challenges. Is your firm ready or complacent? Is your firm good at change?

Sources:

  1. For a GoogleTalk video by the Susskind’s see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulXwTpW2oFI
  2. Details of the book The Future of the Professions is at http://www.amazon.co.uk/The-Future-Professions-Technology-Transform/dp/0198713398
  3. For more on the Fourth Industrial Revolution see http://www.weforum.org/pages/the-fourth-industrial-revolution-by-klaus-schwab

 

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A Letter Designed to Get Past the PA

Haribo selling

PA’s are guardians of their bosses time and attention. They have an important screening role. So there can be a challenge to work out how to get past the PA.Here’s an interesting technique. I came across it on LinkedIn and wanted to share…

Dear Secretary of Ms Anderson

I hope you are well.

I do apologise for not addressing you by name. I did try to find out, but was unable to. Google was no help either. I’m sure you have a lovely name, though.

If Slaughter & May is like other companies, I believe that one of your responsibilities will entail sifting and sorting Ms Anderson’s mail. I’m sure she receives lots of letters, some important and some useless, and- as guardian of what reaches Ms Anderson’s desk – you are responsible for deciding which letters reach her, and which are forwarded on to Human Resources for a response.

By now, you will have noted the two packets of Haribo taped below. They are for you. You can share them with your colleagues if you wish, but I wouldn’t if I were you – they’re only little. The reason there are two packets is because after consuming one, you always want another. And that’s why there is another.

The packets are for you for ensuring that the attached letter reaches Ms Anderson’s desk. If you’re unable to do that, you can have the packets anyway for taking the time to read this letter.

I would recommend you eat the Tangfastics packet after the Starmix packet because, otherwise, the sourness of the former will not allow you to savour the real sweetness of the latter.

Enjoy!

It looks like an effective strategy to me. It gets you noticed. It provides a bit of fun and light relief. There is some humanity and charm. It probably won’t work with everybody – but then again, no single style works for everybody!

While I try to find out if it worked, what other tactics do we all have for getting past the PA gatekeeper?

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Why Law Firms Don’t Listen to Consultants

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Partners don’t listen to outside advisors for several reasons – most of them good ones! Here are a few. I also provide some thoughts on what consultants could do more of, less of and differently to build better working collaborations with firms:

  1. The advisors haven’t established their credibility. Consultants need to commit to the legal sector and not be dabblers! They need to demonstrate their deep understanding of the legal market and the typical goings on inside law firms.
  2. The advisors haven’t established sufficient rapport. Advisors should invest in building relationships with firms. Ask lots of questions and listen well and then demonstrate that they share similar values to the partner or firm.
  3. More importantly, the advisor may not be fully trusted. Consultants need to demonstrate that they genuinely have the firm’s interests uppermost in their mind (rather than just selling them something!)
  4. Lawyers have been trained to be cautious and risk averse. Advisors do better if they collect all the evidence before asking partners to commit to anything.
  5. Most partners are cynical. They are used to hearing somebody say one thing and do something else! This relates to the trust point above. Consultants will do better if they bear this in mind and demonstrate a consistency in their messages and actions.
  6. Lawyers are bright and used to expressing their arguments in a logical fashion (eg ‘there are three good reasons why we should negotiate in this way…’ etc). Many inputs from consultants are founded on less tangible visions which are hard to grasp intellectually. Consultants need to back up their propositions with hard data and ideally evidence that their suggestions work.
  7. Partners like having control. A change programme being proposed by consultants invariably has actions requiring a consultation process on some aspects of the change. This is difficult to say ‘yes’ to because the partners risk losing control of the outcomes. Advisors need to be sensitive to this underlying fear and provide reassurances that the partners will be supported in the change process.
  8. Most partners haven’t been trained in how to make big decisions. They may be invited to a New Partner Induction course but the average partner gets little training or coaching in how to run a complex business. Consultants find it frustrating that decisions take so long and vacillate between yes/no/maybe so easily. Advisors can help with the decision-making process by running workshops and using decision-making tools such as the Ease-Effect matrix, criteria weighting and scoring processes etc
  9. Lawyers are experts. Their usual mode of behaviour is to tell clients things (eg what the law allows, what it doesn’t etc). Many consultants focus less on knowledge and more on process. Partners can find this difficult to grasp. Advisors need to convince lawyers why a rigorous process is so important in managing change.
  10. Partners prefer silver bullets to common sense solutions. Sometimes the simple-but-hard solutions, such as ‘eat less, exercise more’, are not what partners want to hear. They know that already. They prefer solutions that they hadn’t thought of, that are easier to implement. Consultants should consider offering a mix of recommendations.

The legal market is changing and law firms themselves continue to need to undergo lots of change. They’ll need help to do this, so we need to have better working relationships between the firms and their external advisors. I hope this provides some useful tips.

For a fun look at consultants, see https://tonyreiss.com/2013/05/07/a-fable-on-how-the-world-sees-management-consultancy-and-hr/

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Diversity Fatigue in Firms?

diversityIn the week that Sherwood Consulting presented our findings on women in leadership roles in law firms there was an interesting Schumpeter column in The Economist. If you’re interested in gender balance and diversity in firms, read on…

The column opens: ‘RONALD REAGAN once said that “The nine most terrifying words in the English language are, ‘I’m from the government and I’m here to help’.” Today they are run a close second by 12 words: “I’m from human resources and I’m here to organise a diversity workshop.” Most people pay lip service to diversity in public. But what they think in private can be very different. Some HR consultants have even started to worry about “diversity fatigue”.

The arguments in favour of diversity are powerful. The most obvious is that diversity is simply a fact about the modern world. Women have entered the workforce in huge numbers. Mass immigration has transformed Western societies: even in once-homogeneous countries such as Sweden, foreign-born people make up 14% of the population. Gay men and women increasingly feel no need to stay closeted, in or out of the workplace. Companies that ignore this may starve themselves of talent, as well as be out of touch with their customers. ‘

Adding to the evidence for diversity’s benefits, Schumpeter sites studies by the Peterson Institute, the University of Chicago, MIT and internal surveys at Google that have found that diverse teams achieve better results and are often the most innovative.

David Livermore comments in his new book, “Driven by Difference: How Great Companies Fuel Innovation through Diversity” that many firms are complaining that they are not getting much return for their investment in diversity. “Tomorrow I have to go to a diversity-training workshop,” he heard one man say to another in the gym. “Oh God!” came the reply. “That’s right up there with getting a root canal.” At a Sherwood lunch this week, many firms admitted that progress at getting more women into senior positions seems to have plateaued.

Schumpeter adds: Executives feel they are dragooned into sitting through lengthy seminars on equal opportunities. They are fearful of saying anything that departs from the “correct” line on any diversity-related matter. And they feel under pressure to hit their recruitment quotas. The more important reason however is that the proponents of diversity often fail to acknowledge that there can be a trade-off: to get the benefits, firms must be prepared for and deal with, some problems. Diversity does not produce better results automatically, through a sort of multicultural magic. It does so only if it is managed well.

Sherwood would add that all the interventions made, whether it is coaching for maternity leave returners, agile working, unconscious bias training etc need to be joined up to achieve the results firms are looking for. For example, is the BD function on board and looking to put more women on pitch teams?

Sherwood and Schumpeter agree that the biggest challenge is to do with trust. Employees need to trust the system (eg that staff are evaluated fairly and the right people will be promoted etc) and trust each other if they are to be fully motivated and produce their best work. But it is easier to establish trust with those you have a lot in common with. Mr Livermore notes that diverse teams are more likely to produce truly innovative ideas, but they are also more likely to fail completely. He suggests that managers of diverse teams need o set lots of short-term goals so that teams can see the benefits of working together. They also need to recognise that Westerners tend to think that getting straight down to the task at hand is the best way to do this, whereas South Asians believe in establishing rapport over cups of tea first.

Are firms yet aware enough of these cultural differences? One Western firm urged its employees to “act like an owner” without realising that, in some cultures, acting like an owner means playing golf all day.

On gender balance, there is increasing evidence that men’s and women’s brains are wired differently with women being able to assess risk more accurately. This means they might not put themselves forward so readily and may miss out on being selected for the bigger ticket and riskier projects.

Managers (with their unconscious biases) evaluate people on their willingness to speak up without realising that some people—women especially, in many countries—are brought up to hold their tongues and defer to authority. Livermore argues that managers need to work harder at getting members of silent minorities to speak up.

If law firms are struggling to make progress on gender balance, what about looking for success stories from other sectors? Can the big firms learn anything from the Big 4? What about the Civil Service?

The War for Talent is back. Surely this creates a burning platform to get more partners on board and committed to diversity and gender balance issues?

See also: https://tonyreiss.com/2016/02/16/the-drain-of-female-talent-in-firms/

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The Drain of Female Talent in Firms

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Most firms tell me that they meet many more impressive young women than men when they’re recruiting. So there’s something wrong when this talent chooses not to stay and become partners. And firms are missing out big time!

A major study by Bain & Co may have the answer. They asked more than 1,000 men and women in a mix of U.S. firms two questions:

  • Do you aspire to a senior position?
  • Do you have the confidence you can reach a senior position?”

Women with less than two years work experience had slightly more ambition than their male counterparts. But for women who had more than two years experience, aspiration and confidence plummeted 60% and nearly 50%, respectively. This loss of ambition and confidence was recorded regardless of marriage and motherhood status, and compared with much smaller changes for men, who experienced only a 10% dip in confidence.

When Bain asked more senior associates the same questions, the percentage rose for both genders, but women never regained the level of aspiration that newcomers had. It remained 60% lower than men, whose rates shot up. Most jarringly, the percentage of senior male managers who have confidence that they will reach top jobs is almost twice the percentage of female managers.

Why the dashed expectations? Here’s a clue… the majority of leaders celebrated in a corporate newsletter or an offsite meeting tend to consist of men hailed for pulling all-nighters or for networking their way through the golf course to develop client relationships. As Bain reports: If corporate recognition and rewards focus on those behaviours, women feel less able, let alone motivated to try to make it to the top.

Here’s an example provided by Bain:

One woman recounted an experience at her firm’s recent management retreat: “Watching middle-aged white male after middle-age white male tell their war stories of sacrificing everything to close the sale was demoralizing, I just kept sinking lower in my chair and thinking that I would never be able to make it to the senior ranks if this was what it took.”

This culture is reflected in the answers to a second set of questions posed by Bain:

  • Do you see yourself fitting into the typical stereotypes of success within the firm?
  • Have your supervisors been supportive of your career aspirations?

New workers of both genders had similar responses to the questions. But more experienced workers answered very differently. Women’s confidence that they matched the firm ideal dropped by 15 percentage points; men’s by just 9 points. Women’s sense that their supervisors supported their career goals was 20 points lower; men’s was just 3 points lower.

Some women told Bain that their direct supervisors didn’t know their career aspirations, or what to say or do to support them. Others reported feedback like “you’re not cut out for” top management, or “you don’t really want it.”

What’s not happening are discussions of goals, career strategies, job satisfaction, overall trajectory and—especially—the simple giving of real encouragement, all in a business culture that rarely celebrates women’s role models. While every insecure overachiever (the definition of strivers) needs encouragement, Bain’s research clearly demonstrates that, because of gender differences, men get it more frequently than women. One study by the Centre for Talent Innovation even showed that two-thirds of male managers balk at counselling more-junior women; if the conversations don’t take place, the needed affirmation simply can’t happen.

That’s a huge missed opportunity, because positive affirmation creates huge benefits. Polls show that both men and women want to work for firms that recognize talent in all its varieties. Having engaged employees assures better business outcomes and more loyal clients?

How’s your firm on motivating female talent?

Source: http://www.bain.com/publications/articles/everyday-moments-of-truth.aspx

For more insights on this topic see http://anncollierblog.com/2015/02/02/men-enter-a-race-women-enter-a-race-they-think-they-can-win/

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